Why put women into motherhood without marriage? The real issue here is not the women with children out of wedlock, the issue is the men who leave them after making them pregnant.
No one  plan on being a single mum, but you have to deal with the cards you are given the best way you can.

First comes love, then comes marriage, but what about the baby in the baby carriage before marriage? Sometimes temporary pleasure leads to a lifetime of unplanned responsibility.
Being a single mom is not easy, it is one of the toughest jobs in the world. It takes a lot of work, dedication, and love, but most of all, it requires a strong sense of determination and confidence.

We need to be a responsible generation. Many people know what it’s like not to grow up with absent fathers. They know what it’s like to be raised by a single mother. Let them not do unto children what was done to some of them. Being a single mother is not something that any woman would wish, but unfortunately, it happens.

The issue of children growing up without fathers because these men are unwilling to take responsibility for the children they were very actively involved in making. And their involvement was not just that of a spectator. It was a very active, sweaty, heavy-breathing and funny face-making moment. They were very involved. Now, these women and children get punished for something two people were involved in.

We have choices and we are smarter than that. Since women are the ones who are often left with the burden of responsibility, I think that women should be extra vigilant about who gets into their pants. It's not easy to open your legs for someone who is unwilling to pay your bride price.

Single mums are superheroes. Even if your kids don’t know it yet, they will someday. They’ll recognize all the love and effort you put into your family. The love and effort you put into them.
Kudos to you all!

By Maureen Ona-Igbru

Useful links on marriage:
Why Women Let Go of Their Beauty After Marriage
Why People Could Marry Their Cousins
The Enmity Closer Than Friendship
What A Guy Needs To Know To Handle A Sexual Relationship

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